How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 01:31
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Do very hot men ever feel attracted to an ugly woman? Why?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Ask yourself:
What are some cool confidence hacks?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Why am I so jealous towards couples? Why am I tired of being single and feel my life is over?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What is the most peculiar thing about the human brain?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Why did McLaren hope that the Ferrari pair would pit twice during the Italian Grand Prix?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What do you think of Obito Uchiha?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Would the word literate carry the same meaning with public (common wealth) in 1900 vs today 2020?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Jonas Brothers cancel and move upcoming concerts, including one in North Texas - WFAA
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Making more friends is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Procrastinates a lot.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
How many women have accidentally pooped their pants and became turned on afterwards?
Does not procrastinate.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
Hangs out with loser friends.
What I need from you?